Jesus and the Mean Girl

It takes one. Only one. You’ve heard the old saying: One rotten apple spoils the barrel. It’s so true. Look around in your own life.

In your work setting, in your social circle. One “mean girl” or bully, spewing hurtful gossip, just plain making up stories, lies, putting on a show overtly with the intent to hurt, then sitting back folding her hands with a satisfied smirk on her face. And then running to church every time the doors are open and claiming to be a rule-keeper and a Christian, taking in communion—blood of Christ—with all that rotten gossip, trying to mix the ultimate love and ultimate hate.

Okay, you can deal with that. You see through it. You pity the one who has had so much hurt in her own life to make her this way—to have to put down and stomp on others so she can be higher and better. She puts on a show of some good acts to build followship. But then.

What do others in the circle do? Yes. They follow and support the bad apple. They are afraid not to, knowing they will be the next target. So they listen to the gossip; they believe; they look at and treat the target as though it is all true. And then they run to their own churches every Sunday and pretend they believe the Bible, when all they like is the black leather outside and their life actions mock the black words printed inside.

This is our world, macrocosm and microcosm, and I’m talking here about the microcosm, and it is hurtful. And there’s nothing you can do, except come out of it soiled and beaten down and limp in a mean world of mean people who don’t give a damn.

I can see why some just want that pill to end it all.

In my weak moments, I’m there.


One Comment on “Jesus and the Mean Girl”

  1. Susie says:

    The bad apples stand out because they’re ‘different’. They’ve spoiled because of an injury to themselves. They let that injury define them and it eventually takes them over. If another apple is injured and is around the one with a larger injury their injury excels. Good apples try but can’t always get close enough, fast enough to ward off the rotting. You must distance yourself to save yourself. You can’t always save the ones who have more rot than firm flesh.


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